"The police jumped on that and said, 'Well, this kind of thing happens all the time. Raney said she told the police her daughter was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and that she was on medication. When Farver didn't show up on her half-brother's wedding day, Raney reported her missing. She tried to get Farver on the phone, but said her daughter wouldn't call back, which was unusual. One message claimed Farver had taken a new job in Kansas, which Raney said, "totally threw me." I feel like I'm numb.'"īut by the time Farver was dating Kroupa in 2012, Raney said her daughter was in a good place, working at her dream job in Omaha, and Max was a thriving high school student.Īround the time Kroupa was receiving those intense text messages, Raney said she too began receiving strange texts. "There was a couple of times when she would stop taking the medication because she said, 'Mom. "She had been seeing therapists and was on medication," Raney said. You're a terrible person."Īt the moment, Kroupa said he thought, "I don't need this… I dodged a bullet." Cari Farver's mother, son receive strange textsįarver's mother, Nancy Raney, says her daughter was diagnosed with depression in her late 20s - a few years after having her son, Max Farver - and that she was eventually diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Nearly two days passed before he said his phone started blowing up again with texts, in which Farver said, in part, "I hate you. When Kroupa returned home that night, Farver was gone. She responded almost immediately, saying, "Fine. Kroupa texted her back saying he wasn't interested. Then, around mid-morning, Kroupa said he got a strange text from her saying she wanted to move in together, "which was very left field because we had already talked about that not happening," he said. 13, 2012, Kroupa said he got ready for work, kissed Farver on the way out and told her he would see her later that evening.
Farver worked as a computer programmer and her office was located around the corner from where Kroupa lived, he said, whereas she lived nearly an hour away in Macedonia, Iowa. Kroupa was so quickly taken with Farver that when she was tasked with a big project at work, he offered to let her stay with him. "It was just a brief encounter, maybe 10 seconds or less … but this encounter would go on to have lasting ramifications for all three of them," said Jenn Carpenter, host of the "So Dead" podcast, which followed the case. Golyar had come by unannounced to pick up some things she said she had left there. "I felt like I hit the jackpot with that," Kroupa said.īut as she was leaving his apartment at the end of their date, Kroupa said Farver walked right by Golyar in the hallway.
As things were heating up, Kroupa said Farver told him she didn't want anything serious. So, he invited her back to his apartment after dinner. Kroupa asked Farver out, and said the two immediately hit it off on their first date.
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